Embracing My Kids' Unique Expressions

September 11, 2025 - 04:10

As a parent of a 7-year-old and a 5-year-old, I often hear concerns about my children’s language and manners. They frequently skip saying "please" and "thank you," and occasionally let a swear word slip. However, I firmly believe that this behavior does not indicate that I am a bad parent.

Every child is different, and they express themselves in their own unique ways. It’s important to recognize that their language choices are part of their development and exploration of the world around them. Instead of feeling pressured to conform to societal expectations of politeness, I choose to appreciate their individuality.

I focus on teaching them the value of kindness and respect through our interactions, rather than enforcing strict rules about language. By fostering an environment where they feel free to express themselves, I hope to guide them towards understanding the impact of their words without stifling their natural curiosity and personality.